I have three kids, I try to keep the blog equally informative about all three kids but sometimes...it's all about one. This time the kid in the spotlight is Luke!
First Praise Choir. The kids began our worship service for us and if these sweet voices do not get you in the mood to worship our Lord, nothing will. Luke is in the second row all the way to the right.
Luke's school, Oak Park, recently was awarded "Star" status based on test scores. We were the only school to achieve this honor in our district and everyone was pretty excited. (Say what you will about Mississippi schools but I do declare they ain't nuttin wrong wit our schoolin' the yung'uns down here in these parts). Teasing, teasing...we love our Ocean Springs schools and our dedicated teachers!
To celebrate Star status, the school had a parade and pep rally for the kids and they were to each dress like their favorite "Star." Sports, super hero, music stars all emerged that day. Super cute parade through the hallways. (As a side note to my friends who used to watch 90210 ((and ahem, my dad)), I always envied the outdoor courtyards and outdoor hallways. Well, we have them down here and I think it is so neat). Anyway, I digress, as usual.
Luke's school assembled out on the front lawn. I loved being part of this day. The kids were so excited and chanting for Oak Park and dancing, singing and celebrating. It was great watching the teachers bust out some great moves and just congratulate everyone that worked so hard to reach this great achievement. Watch out, Mississippi won't be 49th out of 50 in education for too much longer if Ocean Springs keeps this up ;) By the way, I joke about our school system but it's kind of like joking about my family...I can do it but you can't. Just saying.
Mrs. Streiff and Luke. What a blessing she has been in our little man's life and move to BIG school.
Look what Luke achieved! Yay, Lukie :) Top readers of all five first grade classrooms. He also got a pizza certificate from his principal for good bus behavior when a bus broke down and he had to switch buses. Proud of little man.
When most of us think Belize, we think of gorgeous beaches, turquoise water and umbrella drinks. Unfortunately, that is a very small glimpse of Belize. Our church recently sent a mission team to Belmopan, Belize to learn more about the mission work of "The Word at Work." The stories of need are endless as are the tales of God's people taking care of each other. One of the people that touched our heart was Momma Leonie. Momma Leonie had a horrible childhood filled with abuse by both parents. She knew she was God's child and He would have a plan for her. And boy did He! Momma Leonie has made a home for the children of Belize that others have neglected and abused. Through the last 25 years, she has had over 650 children pass through her doors from infants to teenagers. She currently has 68 children living in her home. It is an orphanage, but it is so much more. It is a home to these kids and they call Leonie, "Mom." They stay as long as they need, up until 19 years old. Momma Leonie not only feeds, clothes and loves these children as her own but she also raises them to know Jesus and what his saving grace can do in their lives. She calls her children her "princes and princesses" because they are children of The King. Her home is called The Kings Children's Home. She wants her children to know they are special and chosen and loved. She is a remarkable woman, a true demonstration of Jesus' love right here on earth. My family had the privilege of hosting Momma Leonie at our house for 5 days and the amount of love this woman exudes is remarkable.
The kids first meeting Momma Leonie. They loved her from moment one. And she smiles this huge smile every time she was talking to children or talking about her own children.
The kids showing Momma Leonie around our neighborhood. Amelia and Luke got to ask Momma Leonie so many questions about her children and what they like and how they run their house. It was an amazing learning experience for them to realize how similar they were to the children in Belize. I was a little nervous hosting Momma Leonie at first... would she see all my inadequacies as a mom?... would she think it was disgusting how many material possessions we had?...would the kids fight and scream and whine the whole weekend? Thankfully all those worries went away when we spent our first 10 minutes with her. She put us all at ease and we got to just be us, the Boskoviches...the good, the bad and the really ugly. Cuz let's face it, we can only put on our "pretty, everything is perfect" faces for so long. The kids started fighting shortly after meeting her about who got to sit by Momma Leonie at dinner. Which of course led to great conversations about how she does dinner with 68 children and staff, who gets to sit by mommy?? Of course, only Luke could make everyone relax fully and just be ourselves. Luke, being a seven year old, decided to toot, loudly at dinner. And then heartily laughed while saying excuse me. Stephen just looked at Momma Leonie and said, "With 68 children I bet you get a lot of that huh?" She belly laughed and told us all sorts of stories which made us realize...seven year old boys are just seven year old boys, no matter what country they live in.
These two really formed a bond that was so sweet. I also loved that Addison turned "Momma Leonie" into "Mommy Leonie."
Leonie and I got a lot of time together after the kids went to bed, driving to different speaking engagements, etc. to get to know each other. Her story is heartbreaking and uplifting at the same time. I was so touched by this beautiful woman and her love of Jesus. We can all say so easily, "I believe in God, I believe Jesus saved me." But this woman is living it on a daily basis. Giving of herself, over and over again just like Christ does for us. We shared stories of growing up, marriage, our children, (she lights up in telling stories of her kids, just like any proud momma) and enjoyed her sharing with Steve and I what she saw in us and our kids.
Love this incredible woman!
Addison is hmm, how do I say it...spirited. One need not spend more than 15 minutes with Addison to get a taste of it. She is spunky and funny and unbelievably talkative and opinionated for such a little being. I figured, "If anyone can handle Addison, it would be Momma Leonie." But just like all of us, more than once I saw Leonie try to stifle a smile after Addison said something so very Addison like. At one point, she said to me while pointing to Addison, "Now she is a hand full!" I had to just laugh and laugh, finally vindication. If a mom of over 650 children thinks my three year old is a hand full, then at least I know where these wrinkles came from. Addison was enthralled with Momma Leonie and wanted to be with her every second, "You sleep in my bed with me Momma Leonie?" It was also funny how clear things are to a three year old. Leonie was here to get some help to build a bigger home for her children. They are 10 in a room and they are in the city and it is unsafe. As we were talking about it being crowded Addison looked right up at her and said, "We are going to build you a bigger house because you have so many kids." She made my heart smile. If we all lived like three year olds and did what was just the obvious answer, this world would be a much better place.
On the way to church.
Sweet Momma Leonie. I have so many memories I want to record seeing that this is my journal, which I happen to share with you, my wonderful readers. Momma Leonie has been in the states before and she wanted me to take her to Walmart. So off we went to Wally World. Talk about a world of excess. I think what blew my mind was the cost of things in Belize. I knew the average family made about $3000 US a year so I assumed cost of living must be inexpensive too. Boy was I wrong. As we walked around Walmart and she told me prices (Shampoo-$4 here, $30 Belize, Iron-$22 here, $130Belize). I could go on and on. It was shocking to me when I thought about her getting soap, deodorant, etc. for all those kids. I wanted to box up everything in Walmart and send it to her. The needs are so great. But we will get there, with God's help, we will get there. Our church, through God, has great plans to help this wonderful home. Another favorite moment that I will forever cherish is driving with Momma Leonie and one of my favorite songs came on, "I Can Only Imagine." To be driving and singing in the car, just praising our Lord, two mommas a world away but hopefully making a lasting friendship. If you don't know the song please google it. It's beautiful, it talks about what it will be like the day we meet Jesus face to face. "Will I stand in your presence, or to my knees will I fall? Will I sing Halleluia? Will I be able to speak at all? I can only imagine."
This is Momma Leonie visiting with my 1st grade Sunday School class. They were so excited to meet her. We had built a little house out of bricks to put our offerings in so we can help "Raise the Roof" for Momma Leonie. They were full of questions for her and look how comfortable she is around all the children.
This woman has forever touched so many lives in Belize. But now she has also touched many hearts in Mississippi, including my family. We hope to visit Belize but we won't be at a resort. We will be with Momma Leonie and her children at The Kings Children's Home and doing what we can to help those prince and princesses know that Jesus loves them and has a plan for them. "For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord. Plans to prosper you and not to harm you. Plans to give you hope and a future." Jeremiah 29:11
As parents, we all strive to provide our children with new experiences. But sometimes, I have to laugh at our "experiences" and wonder if we are just plain crazy for letting our kids do it. A doctor friend of Stephen's rehabilitates baby raccoons and then releases them back into the wild. And when I say rehabilitates, I mean they let them wander about their gorgeous million dollar home and they feed them bottles and cuddle them and walk them. They offered to let our kids come over and experience the baby raccoons. I decided this was definitely a daddy field trip because I would have been a nervous nelly around the raccoons. The kids of course enjoyed every second and brought pictures to their school to share all their stories with their class. They even fed the raccoons marshmallows. So as you look at the pictures, just remember, no children or raccoons were hurt in the taping of this blog.
Amelia pretty much could not be happier than when she is holding an animal...a baby animal...even better.
The raccoons loved being held but hated being put down so they held on with their paws and didn't let go.
Addison's first time holding a baby raccoon...you can tell she hated it.
Guess which of my three kids is like me and just a tad bit cautious? Mr. Luke spent lots of time petting but not any time holding. I think he wanted to make a quick get away if they went all Gremlin on him.
They don't bite at all as demonstrated by Miss Fearless.
I just couldn't get enough of these pictures. The raccoons loved to play and chase the kids outside but they don't try to leave and go into the woods.
This is exactly how Addison talks to our dogs so I am sure she was saying something like, "Hi there little raccoon, you are just so cute and I love you."
So, judge if you must our parenting...I am still waiting for child protective services to knock on my door. But at least give us some extra points for this-we did have the big talk that explained they are to never, never, never, never, never touch any wild animal unless mommy or daddy is with them and tells them it is okay. Although anyone in my family will clearly remember Grandma Wellhoefer and Uncle Joe letting wild raccoons climb up them at North Twin and eat off of them. I remember as a little girl being terrified and mesmerized at the same time.
I cannot believe Luke is holding up seven fingers. It's hard to believe my baby boy is a first grader.
Time for a big kid bike!
We had one happy boy opening his presents...it won't be hard to figure out what Luke was into this year.
We told Amelia to give Luke a birthday hug, look at the death grip Luke has on her shoulder.
So happy.
Luke got to choose the birthday restaurant. Of all the fresh seafood we have here on the gulf and of all the restaurants we have in Ocean Springs...Luke chose Red Lobster. Grandma Nancy, you should have been here! Luke and Grandpa Steve ordered crab legs, Daddy ordered popcorn shrimp like always and the girls and I ate chicken...at Red Lobster. Sigh.
Yup, more legos :)
Luke chose to have his birthday party at Kangarooz this year, which is a inflatable jumpy house place.
Hanging together before the friends showed up. Little Miss can really hold her own now at places like this. She is nothing if not determined.
Buddies-old friends and new friends are the best.
The Castleman boys. Addison has chosen Tate as her betrothed. Tate is not so sure about this but he tolerates it well. She chases him at school and sits by him and inquires about him when she is not with him. Eben was also a sweetheart and took Addison all around the party and played with her.
Pizza, cake and ice cream time :)
Happy 7th Birthday Luke! We love you so much and hope you always keep your kind, caring heart.
It was Labor Day weekend, we all had just weathered another hurricane, our kids had been home with us for a week post hurricane. What are adults to do? Party...definitely party. Stephen and I decided to throw together an adults only BBQ and we had some amazing food, awesome laughs and 30 fun friends ready to let loose!
Some of my girl friends showing off the delicious dessert table.
Everything was still nice and civil at 8pm.
Beside Katie and Kristen lies the bar. I should have gotten a before and after picture of the bar. It is shocking how much alcohol 30 church going, professional, responsible(??) adults can go through in one night. Yikes. Long Island ice teas, check, Summer Beer, check, Flaming Dr. Peppers, check, too many beers, wine, shots and mixed drinks to count, check.
Me after a few Summer beers and Flaming Dr. Peppers.
Such a fun night! We are blessed with such a fab group of friends that we love. We are doubly blessed because our beautiful babysitter, Ashley, babysat our children overnight...at her apartment, so they didn't have to witness the craziness. Also, since the party ran into the next day, it was very nice to be able to sleep in. God bless Ashley. We love her.
The next day the Kahles had us and the Neffs over for a pool party. It was just what we needed, some cool water to swim in and some cool water to rehydrate ourselves.
Cynthia and Kristen just chillin'
The Kahles have chickens and my kids think they are the coolest. Look at Addison hugging this chicken. "Fluffy" is so calm and just sits there while Addison totes her around like an accessory.
"I wuv you Fluffy."
Some of the kids having dinner. My only picture of Luke for the day. He was too busy playing with Ben to keep up with him.
